I swear to you, I wouldnt be standing here were I not upheld. After earth has stopped the ears: Now you will not swell the rout Q: Many of us say, "Well, you know, I've got to work hard to support my family, I don't have a lot of time," or "I don't want to seem radical," or "I don't want to cause my neighbors to suspect I'm not fully patriotic." For some reason, nothing so infuriates me as the incapacity of seemingly intelligent people to get it through their heads that God doesnt go around this world with his fingers on triggers, his fists around knives, his hands on steering wheels. It just happened. God is dead set against all unnatural deaths. This is the fifth year of the complete ten year collection of sermons. I mentioned the healing flood of letters. You gave me what God gives all of us minimum protection, maximum support. He was ordained in the Presbyterian church and later received ministerial standing in the United Church of Christ. While I could never presume to know the answer, I do take comfort in this passage from the author Kate Braestrup, which I wrote in my final post on this blog (below). A Eulogy for Alex Editor's note: Ten days after his son, Alex, drove off a bridge and was killed in a car accident, Reverend William Sloane Coffin delivered the following sermon to his congregation at Riverside Church in New York City. This is the sixth year of the complete ten year collection of sermons. But I do not approve. Today's Times asks the inevitable question following the tragic death of at least 26 Polish pilgrims in the French Alps: What kind of God would allow something like this to happen? For the latest updates across BBC blogs, visit the Blogs homepage. My soul shall make her boast in the Lord: The humble shall hear thereof, and be glad. As his younger brother put it simply, standing at the head of the casket at the Boston funeral, "You blew it, buddy. He was a director, and later vice-president of W. & J. Sloane Company, his family's business, which was founded by his grandfather, William Sloane, from Kilmarnock, Scotland. Thousands of people have died without the benefit of a poetic father! ABERNETHY: I asked Coffin to think back on the civil rights and other protest movements he helped lead. So, I wrote the sermon about it. The night after Alex died I was sitting in the living room of my sisters house outside of Boston, when the front door opened and in came a nice-looking, middle-aged woman, carrying about eighteen quiches. And the name died before the man. Gently they go, the beautiful, the tender, the kind; Q: After September 11 there was a surge of patriotism. Listen to an interview with Rev. The still-defended challenge-cup. The scripture reading for each sermon can be found below in PDF format. Q: As you look back on everything you've done in your wonderful life, what are you most proud of? Cannot see the record cut, As for the theological issues, I agree with William on the need for respectful silence. And that's what hundreds of you understood so beautifully. William Crawley | 12:42 UK time, Friday, 27 July 2007. I was impressed by the Amish last year when that young girl was killed. But when children die, they take away the future as well. What should churches be doing in the face of whats going on in our country right now? Q: Let me ask you to look back a little bit at some of the great movements you were part of. ABERNETHY: In our conversation, Coffin quoted words he liked, words he attributed to Irenaeus, an early church father: "The glory of God is a human being fully alive." The fleet foot on the sill of shade, The woman most in need of liberation is the woman in every man and the man in every woman. The best of William Sloane Coffin, Jr. All too often we speak when we should be listening I know how lucky I am! SERMON: Alex's Death, by William Sloane Coffin, Jr. Posted on October 6, 2013. When she saw me, she shook her head, then headed for the kitchen, saying sadly over her shoulder, I just dont understand the will of God. 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Paul said he would prefer to be in eternity (where all pain and suffering ends), but worked all the harder here in time until he left. Download Sermon Scripture List(84 kb - PDF). But I think much of our exasperation could be tempered if we could see our lives more from God's perspective than our own. See more stories about iPad, HBO, How-To. He was a cleric. My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me? Yes, but at least, My God, my God; and the psalm only begins that way, it doesnt end that way. Of course its a crutch. Tony Campolo retells an incident involving William Sloane Coffin following the death of his son, Alexander. As the . William Sloane Coffin Jr., a United Church of Christ minister known globally for his peace and justice advocacy, died April 12 at his home in rural Strafford, Vermont. Quotes. Brett & Kate McKay March 18, 2017 Last updated: June 16, 2021. RN: What about the Educational system as it relates to democracy? Which is not to say that there are no nature-caused deaths I can think of many right here in this parish in the five years I've been here deaths that are untimely and slow and pain-ridden, which for that reason raise unanswerable questions, and even the specter of a Cosmic Sadist yes, even an Eternal Vivisector. I know all the "right" biblical passages, including "Blessed are those who mourn," and my faith is no house of rest, came from fellow reverends, a few of whom proved they knew their cards; these passages are true, I know. We chaired you through the market-place; But when children die, they take away the future as well. William Sloane Coffin Sr. (April 15, 1879 - December 16, 1933) was an American businessman. An Eulogy for Alex Theres something in the flight How are you able to look at the world as it is and still have the capacity for feeling joyful? 00:00 $ 75.00 Sermons from Riverside Church 1982 Click the cart icon next to a prayer in the player below to add a prayer to your cart. Is that so hard to understand? The night after Alex died I was sitting in the living room of my sisters house outside of Boston, when the front door opened and in came a nice-looking, middle-aged woman, carrying about eighteen quiches. William Sloane Coffin Jr. preached these Sunday sermons from the pulpit of the Riverside Church in New York City. Coffin to his congregation at the Riverside Church in New York City. I wrote the sermon. William Sloane Coffin Jr. offers one more complicated blessing. Coffin's son, Alex, tragic death in an automobile accident. Itsjust one of those things I think is worth a read by all. William Sloane Coffin Jr. William Sloane Coffin, Jr. (born 1924) was a Yale University chaplain who spoke out against the Vietnam War and was indicted as a criminal by the United States government for conspiring to aid young men to avoid the military draft.. William Sloane Coffin, Jr. was born to considerable wealth and social position on June 1, 1924, in New York City. Please address any specific reforms that demand priority. by Rev. And decks the rays. For some reason, nothing so infuriates me as the incapacity of seemingly intelligent people to get it through their heads that God doesnt go around this world with his fingers on triggers, his fists around knives, his hands on steering wheels. --Robert Browning Hamilton. She chattered all the way; It remains a heartfelt classic in homiletics. A formula, A phrase remains.but the best is lost. Houseman, To an Athlete Dying Young. And I wept and I wept. William Sloane Coffin. Hope arouses, as nothing else can arouse, a passion for the possible., I love the recklessness of faith. "I'll say you don't, lady!" So I shall so let us all seek consolation in that love which never dies, and find peace in the dazzling grace that always is. All rights reserved. __________________ As almost all of you know, a week ago last Monday night, driving in a terrible storm, my son Alexander who to his friends was a real day-brightener, and to his family fair as a star when only one is shining in the sky my twenty-four-year-old Alexander, who enjoyed beating his old man at every game and in every race, beat his father to the grave. I was reminded today of this beautiful eulogy by the late William Sloane Coffin for his 24-year-old son, Alex, and I wanted to share it with you. We have to be forced down. William Sloane Coffin. The silence of God over the cross is our model here. Actually, its even more worth a listen; its considerably more powerful inthe oral form in which it was delivered, and the audio can be accessed here. How does a true Christian operate in a pluralistic world? Why are they unhappy if they think he is in paradise with 72 virgins or are they just feeling sorry for themselves? As the grief that once seemed unbearable begins to turn now to bearable sorrow, the truths in the right biblical passages are beginning, once again, to take hold: Cast thy burden upon the Lord and He shall strengthen thee; Weeping may endure for the night but joy cometh in the morning; Lord, by thy favor thou hast made my mountain to stand strong; For thou hast delivered my soul from death, mine eyes from tears, and my feet from falling; In this world ye shall have tribulation, but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world; The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it. And finally I know that when Alex beat me to the grave, the finish line was not Boston Harbor in the middle of the night. That's the puzzlement of it all. To-day, the road all runners come, 5 Refusing to cede the battlefield of morality to conservatives, he argues that "compassion demands . One of the most powerful statements in this sermon was the following: The reality of grief is the solitude of pain, the feeling that your heart is in pieces, your mind's The reality of grief is the absence of God My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me? The reality of grief is the solitude of pain, the feeling that your heart is in pieces, your minds a blank, that there is no joy the world can give like that it takes away. (Lord Byron). Just click the play button. By a departing light Still there is much by way of consolation. But I'm an atheist. (There's words for everything else.) In your prayer life do you tend to direct your prayer life to Jesus or God? Would it be abhorrent to find that intensely funny? It is self-interest. Above all, he condemns what he sees as the country's self-righteousness. Q: Why do you think that is, in the country as a whole? Editors note: Ten days after his son, Alex, drove off a bridgeand was killed in a car accident, Reverend William Sloane Coffin delivered the following sermon to his congregation at Riverside Church in New York City. A fragment of what you felt, of what you knew, This is the eighth year of the complete ten year collection of sermons. William Sloane Coffin's Eulogy for Alex Ten days after his son, Alex, was killed in a car accident, Reverend William Sloane Coffin delivered this sermon to his congregation at Riverside Church in New York City. But its a fact: few of us are naturally profound. In my case on the death of my wife they were summed up well in a poem by Edna St. Vincent Millay entitled Dirge without Music. Welcome to the sermons and prayers download page. Individual prayers and sermons can be purchased by clicking the cart icon next to each prayer or sermon title. Additionally, a 301 Moved Permanently error was encountered while trying to use an ErrorDocument to handle the request. so if God doesnt will these things to happen, why does he let them happen? This album is a collection of prayers from the end of the sermons; 1977-1979. You gave me what God gives all of us minimum protection, maximum support. And decks the rays. Another consolation, of course, will be the learning which better be good, given the price. I read someone say recently that this is only a training ground for eternity. Sometimes it has seemed that patriotism blocked any kind of criticism, that we were afraid if we spoke out against going to war or the policies after the Iraq war, that it would be considered disloyal to the troops and our country. Well, so I wanted them to know, they had a pastor. Still there is much by way of consolation. As the grief that once seemed unbearable begins to turn now to bearable sorrow, the truths in the "right" biblical passages are beginning, once again, to take hold: "Cast thy burden upon the Lord and He shall strengthen thee"; "Weeping may endure for the night but joy cometh in the morning"; "Lord, by thy favor thou hast made my mountain to stand strong"; "For thou hast delivered my soul from death, mine eyes from tears, and my feet from falling"; "In this world ye shall have tribulation, but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world"; "The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.". The fact you find that puzzling makes me glad not to be in your family! I know how lucky I am! That is what makes the valley of the shadow of death seem so incredibly dark and unending. Well yes this is all very well but why, then, do Christians _thank_ God when something goes right. #Firsts #Leap #Wings. Thats why immediately after such a tragedy people must come to your rescue, people who only want to hold your hand, not to quote anybody or even say anything, people who simply bring food and flowers the basics of beauty and life people who sign letters simply, Your brokenhearted sister. In other words, in my intense grief I felt some of my fellow reverends not many, and none of you, thank God were using comforting words of Scripture for self-protection, to pretty up a situation whose bleakness they simply couldnt face. Robert Browning Hamilton Or, in Emily Dickinsons verse: By a departing light We see acuter quite Than by a wick that stays. William Sloane Coffin. Moved Permanently. Because there are no rankling unanswered questions, and because Alex and I simply adored each other, the wound for me is deep, but clean. But the things I learned from her While the words of the Bible are true, grief renders them unreal. Rememberallproceeds will go directly to support the WSC scholarships at Union Theological Seminary in N.Y.C. My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me? Yes, but at least, My God, my God; and the psalm only begins that way, it doesnt end that way. Cars skid out of control on icy roads, healthy cells are consumed by cancerous ones. And of course I know, even when pain is deep, that God is good. Lovers and thinkers into the earth with you. After the death of his wife, C.S. And I wept and I wept. Which is not to say that there are no nature-caused deaths I can think of many right here in this parish in the five years Ive been here deaths that are untimely and slow and pain-ridden, which for that reason raise unanswerable questions, and even the specter of a Cosmic Sadist yes, even an Eternal Vivisector. 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